CALM DOWN
Concerning the recent contretemps at the local YMCA: the Wheelers first need to calm down and stop exploiting this situation for the instant celebrity status it brings them (“Firestorm of fear,” July 20).
I can imagine how shocking it was for Abbigail to see what seemed to be a man in a safe space for women. Trans people are exceedingly rare, and when it comes to sexual matters, we all become more guarded. But as she recalls how she felt at that moment, she should consider this: that’s how a trans person would feel being in the dressing room that corresponds to their genitalia rather than their self-perception.
Gender is not determined by anatomy, though of course it is the standard indicator. Gender is in the brain; it’s hard-wired into our identities. If the body doesn’t match the brain, that’s not anyone’s fault – it’s not a sin, and it’s not a crime. It’s just the way it is.
The YMCA should let Abbigail back in, if she wants to be, on the condition that she sincerely apologize to the person who caused her to freak out. The world is too small for hate and fear.
Jeffrey Hobbs
Springfield
WOMEN’S RIGHTS
I’m writing with regard to the recent actions by the Springfield YMCA. The real issue here is our lawmakers have lost all common sense as well as their ability to understand modesty.
I remember growing up in the 1970s and being forced to shower after P.E. in open showers, both in junior high and high school. I never liked it and still wouldn’t. So, it’s not surprising to me when a 16-year-old girl didn’t feel comfortable with the fact that biological males were allowed to use the women’s locker room at the Y.
Men calling themselves female does not make them females. Men will never fully understand what it is like to grow up as a female, and likewise for women who call themselves male. The truth is we are two completely different beings with completely different body parts and purpose. Bathrooms, locker rooms and any place where people are undressing, showering or going to the bathroom should allow privacy from others of the opposite sex. Once upon a time, that was common sense.
The YMCA stated they are an inclusive organization who welcomes all people and do not discriminate. But in fact, they are discriminating against women and faith.
The truth is, our lawmakers have created so many different protected classes, it’s not at all difficult to discriminate against someone in the process. As a result, what’s happening is we are finding out that some people are considered more protected than others. Women have become less protected with all the laws protecting transgender women, such as with participation in girls’ and women’s athletics and what used to be considered private spaces.
Women and Christians are once again at a point in time where they must stand up and fight for their rights. What is shocking is that even organizations who should be speaking out for women’s rights are not.
Sandra Walden
Sherman
SHOW RESPECT
Some of the comments posted in response to this article are from people who are disturbed by other people who transition to a gender identity that makes them more comfortable and happy. First, the commenter should have some genuine respect for people who transition. Second, the commenter should try to respect not only their own position but also the position of the YMCA, trying to accommodate the people – all the people – of the Springfield area. Third, the commenter should think about the rules that the state and others have adopted to deal with this question: these rules and laws all require every public accommodation, like the Y, to be open and accessible for all.
The comments reflect that some people are disturbed, but have not fully thought through this issue. The commenters show disrespect for others, disrespect for a Y that follows the rules and disrespect for the rules. To the commenters, I suggest that they work on their citizenship and try to do better.
Jim Lewis (former U.S. Attorney)
Albuquerque, New Mexico
This article appears in Transgender turmoil.
I am so tired of people saying they care about “the children”. Be honest and say what you really mean. You care about a very specific group of children that fit the narrative and ideal you believe is right. You don’t “care about the children”, you care about “the good, and proper” children that fit into the mold you have cast in your mind. No matter how a child identifies, looks or feels, they deserve love and respect. You can’t care about a child until they present themselves as something you don’t like and then vilify them.
The people and politicians using children as their scapegoat for mainstreaming hatred should be ashamed of themselves. Especially when most of those people claim to be religious. How can someone who claims to have Jesus in their heart be so hateful, exclusionary, and so eager to be in the spotlight to get attention for being a hateful person? Think of how much time and effort has been put into this ideology of hate, when you are talking about 1% of the population. If this much time, money and effort was put into helping people the world would be a much better place.